Why women hate nice guys
It's the bad boy I've desired in college, my 20s, & my early 30s.
I've dated & married decent guys. In most of my dating years, there was always something bad about the guy.
I don't know. I've always thought I wanted to "fix" the bad man, to make him pleasant, because in my view, he lacked nice attributes owing to a difficult past or a gloomy family life.
I wanted to save him & other criminals. You get it. "Nice folks finish last" seems to be true.
The University of Rochester, the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, & the Interdisciplinary Center Herzliya in Israel each undertook investigations to identify the "potential mechanism".
That makes women indifferent to good men on first meetings & gung-ho about males who ignore them. While the studies explain why men find responsive women more desirable, it's unclear why women are less attracted to strangers.
Men find women who pay attention to them & reply attractive, while women find such behavior off-putting; it kills their s**ual desire on the instant.
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